Sandy was driving me up a wall. She would not listen to anything I had to say any longer, and she was charging up a storm on our credit cards. I finally said that enough is enough, and went to the local library to get a divorce book. It helped a great deal with what kind of lawyer to get, how to split things up, and even how to reconcile our differences so that divorce did not have to be the final option. I tried to reason with her, but it was all for naught, and now I have a court date.