Many people have a dream to buy a nice retirement home with pool. Obviously a retirement home with pool is a good place to live but sometimes it is also so luxurious and beautiful that it becomes out of reach. Most elderly people feel very lonely and they need a company. Normally everybody in the family has their own work and activities so there is very limited time to interact with each other. Sometimes old people can act like children. You should cajole, implore, and explain really carefully why a retirement home with pool is not a suitable place for them.